I grew up with 2 rules, ‘walk it off’ and ‘toughen up,’ and they taught me to hide pain so well that I lost track of myself

Quiet woman indoors

This as-told-to essay was submitted by Mara T. to The Growing Home and edited for clarity and length. I grew up in a ranch house outside Columbus, Ohio, where pain had a ranking system. Broken bone, serious. High fever, serious. Everything else, keep moving. If I came in crying after falling off my bike, my … Read more