Why I never had many close friends, and the 4 ways my mind kept reaching for deep conversation over easy socializing

Quiet coffee talk

This as-told-to essay was submitted by Sofia R. to The Growing Home and lightly edited for clarity. I used to leave parties with the strange feeling that I had been surrounded by people and somehow untouched by the whole night. I remember one office happy hour in River North, Chicago, when everyone stood around high … Read more

I retired at 64 after years of being called brilliant, then sat alone in my study and saw how often I had translated myself to keep others at ease

Quiet home office

This as-told-to essay was submitted by Eleanor R. to The Growing Home and edited lightly for clarity and flow. I remember the exact afternoon when the truth landed. It was October in Evanston, just outside Chicago. The maple tree beyond my study window had turned a fierce red, the kind that looks almost theatrical and … Read more